the cover of a book.

"Don't judge a book by its cover." A classic phrase that we hear on a daily basis. I know that it's not Christlike to judge others but lately I've been given an amazing opportunity to figure it out on my own. 

These past couple days I've gotten to know a new friend on so many levels. In high school he was a typical jock with the drop dead gorgeous girlfriend. He was part of the in crowd and everyone knew who he was. My impression of him was obviously very judge mental.  

I've learned so many things about him in just a short awhile. I don't tend to open up to people and let them in so easily. I feel like he and I have been friends for as long as I can remember. Last night we went for a drive and he poured his heart out to me about the church and how he knows everything happens for a reason. He doesn't have anything bad to say about anyone which I really admire. He is the most kindhearted person I've met in a loooong time. I love how genuine he is. 

Not only does he not judge others but he doesn't judge me. It's crazy how appreciated I feel when he talks to me. It really pays off to be true to what you believe in and who you are. He reminds me of an upgraded version of my best friend. I never thought if find a friend like that again. I just know this is the start of one amazing friendship. 

This friendship has taught me to not judge people. Everyone has their own battles and we just need to put ourselves out there and get out of our comfort zones. I'm positive I'll learn much more as I continue to get to know this awesome kid :) 

Don't be afraid to prove yourself wrong, it may just be the thing you need the most.